One-to-One Therapy & Performance Psychology for Football Players

The person behind the player. Confidential support for the psychological and emotional demands of professional football.


Football places extraordinary demands on players. The pressure to perform, maintain consistency, secure a contract and meet expectations can take a significant toll on mental health and emotional wellbeing.

Whether you're a professional, semi-professional or academy player, there are challenges that come with the game that aren't always easy to talk about.

Performance anxiety, loss of confidence, fear of making mistakes, injury, deselection, competition for places and uncertainty about the future can affect how you feel both on and off the pitch.

I offer confidential, individual therapy and performance psychology sessions for football players who want to better understand themselves, manage the psychological demands of the game and develop healthier ways of navigating their careers.

My approach brings together clinical psychotherapy, psychological understanding and first-hand experience of professional football.

Having previously played professionally for Charlton Athletic and within the West Ham United academy environment, I understand the culture, expectations and pressures that shape a player's experience. My subsequent work as a therapist has included working with professional football environments, players and organisations, alongside contributions to football and mental health projects across broadcast, media and community settings.

This combination of playing experience and clinical practice provides an understanding of the person behind the performance.

What can we work on?

Footballers experience a range of psychological and emotional challenges throughout their careers. Some are directly connected to performance; others affect relationships, identity, confidence and life away from football.

Performance anxiety and pressure

  • Managing nerves and anxiety before matches and important performances.

  • Fear of making mistakes and worrying about how others perceive you.

  • Overthinking, loss of concentration and difficulty performing under pressure.

  • Managing expectations from coaches, teammates, family and yourself.

Confidence and psychological resilience

  • Rebuilding confidence following poor performances or periods out of the team.

  • Managing criticism, scrutiny and negative self-talk.

  • Developing a healthier relationship with mistakes and setbacks.

  • Understanding emotional responses and developing effective coping strategies.

Injury, rehabilitation and deselection

  • Managing the psychological impact of injury and time away from football.

  • Coping with frustration, uncertainty and fear of reinjury.

  • Navigating being dropped, released or overlooked.

  • Maintaining a sense of identity and purpose during periods of uncertainty.

Identity, relationships and life beyond football

  • Exploring self-worth beyond performance, selection and recognition.

  • Managing the impact of football on family and personal relationships.

  • Exploring emotional pressures associated with masculinity and expectations of professional players.

  • Preparing for retirement, career transitions and life after football.

Mental health and emotional wellbeing

  • Working through anxiety, low mood and emotional distress.

  • Understanding stress, emotional regulation and accumulated pressure.

  • Exploring experiences from childhood, relationships and personal history that may influence present-day experiences.

  • Developing greater self-awareness and emotional confidence.


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What can we work on?

Footballers experience a range of psychological and emotional challenges throughout their careers. Some are directly connected to performance; others affect relationships, identity, confidence and life away from football.

Performance anxiety and pressure

  • Managing nerves and anxiety before matches and important performances.

  • Fear of making mistakes and worrying about how others perceive you.

  • Overthinking, loss of concentration and difficulty performing under pressure.

  • Managing expectations from coaches, teammates, family and yourself.

Confidence and psychological resilience

  • Rebuilding confidence following poor performances or periods out of the team.

  • Managing criticism, scrutiny and negative self-talk.

  • Developing a healthier relationship with mistakes and setbacks.

  • Understanding emotional responses and developing effective coping strategies.

Injury, rehabilitation and deselection

  • Managing the psychological impact of injury and time away from football.

  • Coping with frustration, uncertainty and fear of reinjury.

  • Navigating being dropped, released or overlooked.

  • Maintaining a sense of identity and purpose during periods of uncertainty.

Identity, relationships and life beyond football

  • Exploring self-worth beyond performance, selection and recognition.

  • Managing the impact of football on family and personal relationships.

  • Exploring emotional pressures associated with masculinity and expectations of professional players.

  • Preparing for retirement, career transitions and life after football.

Mental health and emotional wellbeing

  • Working through anxiety, low mood and emotional distress.

  • Understanding stress, emotional regulation and accumulated pressure.

  • Exploring experiences from childhood, relationships and personal history that may influence present-day experiences.

  • Developing greater self-awareness and emotional confidence.

You don't have to wait until something goes wrong to talk.

Whether you're struggling with performance anxiety, confidence, injury, the pressures of professional football or something happening away from the pitch, taking time to understand what's going on can be an important step.

Book a confidential session

Start with a conversation about what's happening and what you'd like support with.

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Alternatively, make an enquiry about face-to-face appointments or individual support.

Who is this for?

This service is available to:

  • Professional footballers.

  • Semi-professional and non-league players.

  • Academy and development squad players.

  • Players returning from injury.

  • Players approaching contract decisions, release or retirement.

Sessions are adapted to the player's age, developmental stage, cultural background, circumstances and individual goals. Support for academy players can also take account of the particular pressures experienced by young people balancing football, education, family expectations and identity development.

My approach

I recognise that footballers don't always experience traditional therapy as accessible or relevant to their world.

My approach is relational, trauma-informed and psychologically grounded. It provides space to explore what is happening beneath the surface, rather than focusing exclusively on changing behaviour or improving performance.

Some players may want to work on a specific issue, such as performance anxiety or confidence. Others may want to explore deeper emotional experiences that influence how they respond to pressure, relationships and setbacks.

There is no expectation that you need to be struggling significantly to access support. Therapy can also be an opportunity to develop greater self-awareness, emotional understanding and psychological flexibility.

Sessions are confidential and conducted within professional ethical and safeguarding boundaries. Where a player is referred or funded by a club, the arrangements around confidentiality and any agreed reporting are clarified before work begins.

Experience within football

My work sits at the intersection of professional football, psychology and psychotherapy.

As a former professional footballer and therapist, I bring an understanding of both the playing environment and the emotional experiences that can sit behind it.

My football-related experience includes work and contributions involving professional football environments, players, clubs and organisations, as well as media and broadcast projects exploring the psychological side of the game.

Through my work with Soccology, I have also explored the relationship between football, identity, adversity, mental health and personal development.

This experience informs an approach that recognises players as people first, rather than defining them solely by their position, performance or career status.

Booking One-to-One Sessions

Individual sessions provide a confidential space to explore the issues that matter to you, at a pace that feels appropriate.

Session details

  • Duration: 50 minutes.

  • Fee: £150 per session.

  • Format: Online or face-to-face.

  • Availability: By appointment.

  • Frequency: Agreed according to individual needs and goals.

Players can arrange an initial session directly. Ongoing support can be discussed following the first appointment.


 

 

FAQ - The Check In

Is The Check In therapy? It's a brief professional support service with a therapeutic and psychological foundation, different from ongoing 50 minute therapy and designed for focused conversations around a specific issue or period of difficulty.

Do I need a mental health problem to use it? No. It works for a specific challenge, relationship difficulty, life transition, or simply wanting professional perspective.

Can I book just one session? Yes, with no requirement to sign up for ongoing therapy or a subscription.

How long is a Check In? 25 minutes. The shorter format is intentional, giving enough time to focus on what matters without the commitment of a full appointment.

Can I use it every month? Yes. The monthly subscriptions provide regular access without requiring weekly therapy.

Can parents book a Check In about their child? Yes, to think through concerns about a child's behaviour, emotional wellbeing, relationships, education, or family circumstances.

Is it suitable for young people? Yes, depending on age, circumstances, and needs, with appropriate parental consent and safeguarding arrangements where required.

Is it confidential? Confidential within professional, ethical, and safeguarding boundaries, explained before the work begins.

Is it a crisis service? No. The Check In is not an emergency or crisis service. If you or someone else is at immediate risk, contact the appropriate emergency or crisis service.

Availability

Online across the UK, subject to suitability, with in person sessions available in selected London locations.

Start with a Check In

You don't have to commit to months of therapy, wait until things get worse, or know exactly what you need before you start. Sometimes the most useful first step is simply to check in.

Book a single Check In, 25 minutes, £55.Or join a monthly subscription for regular, ongoing access